You know the guy I'm talking about. He's usually on the cover of a book with a smile on his face and a gleam in his eye.
He's got neat hair and white teeth too. And he really, really wants you to be successful. But how important is your personal success to that guy?
Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying he wants you to do badly. I actually believe he wants you to do well. That guy knows what's best for you but there's one thing he can't know, and that's what you want.
That guy will probably sue me*
Figuring out what you want is a big part of career success. That guy did it his way but success at work might mean something different for you. You might value things differently. You might enjoy different things. You may have different priorities when it comes to grooming.
That guy won't ask what you want and really listen to the answer. But he's not all bad. It's not his fault. He is trying to help after all. And there's a great deal we can learn from him about figuring out what we want and getting motivated. He did that successfully after all.
We know his individual story but what of our own?
Maybe it's not up to that guy to ask us this question. Maybe it's up to us to find out more for ourselves.
Why not make it your business to find out what you want. Ask questions and explore your career for yourself. Find individual answers and make important discoveries based on your experience.
What's important to me?
What am I good at?
What keeps me going?
When did work last give me a good feeling?
Where should my career go in the future?
Share your career answers, ideas and questions below if you want to. Jump to That Guy's defence if he has helped your career move forward.
I want to hear what you have to say. That Guy doesn't have a monopoly any more.
All the best for now,
[*Disclaimer: Any resemblance between the above photograph of my Uncle Brian and any persons living or dead is entirely coincidental.]