Wednesday, 27 January 2010

Just Words

"When all looked sour beyond words, some delightful 'break' was apt to lurk just around the corner.” Amelia Earhart.

This has definitely been true in my experience but they're just words right?

Sometimes you need a lot more to keep going.

When you have tried everything, done everything you can; in that moment it's hard to imagine words that can help.

But these are more than just words.

Simple expressions like this are living experience.

Someone wants you to know what got them through.

They're sharing what they have learned with you.

In the hope that what worked for them might work for you too.

That looks like a good place to aim for.
[Image courtesy of tricky ™ on Flickr]

You will probably have words like these of your own.

When things aren't going your way they remind you that better times will come.

When you feel stuck they remind you that some things are still within your power to change.

When you want to give up they are the words you can turn to.

In my view they are much more than just words.

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Is there a little piece of wisdom you have relied on when the going was tough?
Has a delightful break ever lurked around the corner for you?
Why can't we see round corners?
What experience would you like to share?

They're just words after all, right?

All the best for now,


Monday, 18 January 2010

Interview with Sara Lopez

Once in a while I get to hear a new career story and share it with you on this blog. This is one of those whiles.

I enjoyed talking to Sara so much - and she tells her story so well - that I'm even leaving in her plugs for her favourite brand of soymilk. You'll see why that's an important part of Sara's career story as you read on...

Please tell us your name and where you come from?

My name is Sara Lopez, but most people just call me Lopez. I was born in Miami, Florida but am hanging out in Ohio right now.

What's your job and why do you like it so much?

I’m not really sure what my official title is. Everyone has just started calling me a 'Soy-lebrity' because I am promoting my favorite brand of soymilk (which never ceases to make me giggle). By whatever name though, my job is phenomenal because I believe in everything I am doing.

Have you always had such a passionate relationship with work? What has helped this to change?

I have always been a very driven person. I was raised to believe that if you do something, you should put your all into it. But looking back, I realize I never really knew what it was to be passionate about my job until I had one I cared about so much. I feel like a lot of people are pressured into representing themselves in ways that don’t really portray them. I think I am so happy about my career nowadays because I have become confident and comfortable enough in what I do and who I am.

Like a lot of us, you've had tougher career times, what helped you to stay positive and come through?

Being unemployed was one of the worst experiences I have ever had. I went through depression and self-doubt. But, I am a firm believer in that everything happens for a reason. After an interview I would ask myself, "Did you do the best you could?” If I could answer 'Yes' to that question it meant I had done all I could do. This helped me learn not take things personally and to stay focused on the light at the end of the tunnel. Tough times will get better and without those tough times, the good times wouldn’t feel nearly as good. If you can remember your traits, your ambition, and your worth; it's only a matter of time until an employer recognizes and appreciates you for all the same things.

What other 'figuring out' helped you see your career in a new way? What change did people notice in you afterwards?

Being such a huge fan of social media, when social networking sites were starting to get attention, I knew how to navigate through them and adapt to new ones with ease. As Twitter and other sites started getting larger and more popular, I started to realize that marketing and promoting was no longer one-way communication, but instead two-way communication that involved listening, responding and interacting with potential customers.

After being hired by 8th Continent Soymilk everyone in my life saw my energy change. I am excited every day about the challenges and opportunities my job presents. From meeting new people, to learning new things, I can’t imagine a more enjoyable way to spend my day! When you have a job you enjoy, your outlook morphs into something so positive and so refreshing that people want to get to know you.

Sara Lopez, half-way through answering these questions for you

Do you have a role model or someone whose career inspires you?

I have a ton of inspirational people in my life but I would say my mother is a huge driving factor. She has always wanted to learn more, and never settles. Learning this habit from my Mom has motivated me to stay in front of the trending tools in my field and as they change and make sure I was learning and changing too.

What's the best piece of career advice anyone ever gave you?

There will always be opportunities to succeed. If one isn’t sitting there for you, invent it!

If your career story could inspire just one thing in other people, what would it be?

Be true to yourself. This is the only way you will ever find a career that makes you feel happy and accomplished.

Where do you see yourself and your career in 5 years time?

In five years time, I will still be doing social media and drinking 8th Continent Soymilk- probably at the same time!

Thank you Sara for answering these questions on work/life fusion and for sharing your career story with us.

You can ask Sara a question by commenting below. Alternatively, you might like to share a career experience or ask a new question of your own. You can do this either by commenting or by sending an email to worklifefusion(at)googlemail(dot)com.

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If you'd like to follow Sara and see where her career goes from here, find her online at:

All the best for now,


Wednesday, 13 January 2010

Your Career in 2010

The conversation here has always been about individual careers, that's been the intention at least.

It may have taken a number of twists and turns but that's what happens when you're learning, so that makes it OK.

There have been a few mistakes and dead ends along the way too. A big one always has the power to make you wince but even big mistakes count for something.

On an exploration like this, every experience has the potential to lead somewhere.

But a photographer might call it a career opportunity...
[Image courtesy of martin cleary on Flickr]

2009 was a big year of change for a lot of careers but it's now 2010. All the career changes in 2009 will be talked about for some time but on this blog they just remind me that our conversation takes place one person at a time.

It's you and your relationship with work right now, in 2010.

That's why we're here.

So, if you're in the mood ask yourself this:

How has my career changed in the last year?
What changes do I want to see in the year ahead?
How healthy is my relationship with work?

Feel free to share your answers or set new questions below!

All the best for now,


Tuesday, 5 January 2010

Moral Support for Your Career

Where does moral support come from?

Morals? Supporters? Both?

Wherever it comes from, moral support makes a big difference.

It gives you a boost

Makes you feel more confident

Lets you know when you’re on the right track

But can we find moral support by ourselves?

Know the way even when you feel like you're out there on your own
[Image courtesy of Ken Lund on Flickr]

Moral support is out there and you can find it in many places.

The people you trust are an excellent external source.

But moral support is also something we can discover for ourselves and our careers.

Exploring what’s important to you, what you are good at and what keeps you going is a source with great potential for moral support.

And you don't have to look too far.

What would you say about moral support?

Where have you found it the past?
Can you live without it?
What difference has it made to your work/life when you’ve had it?
Could you get into the habit of finding it for yourself?

Happy New Year and all the very best for 2010!