Have you ever done a good job but no-one told you so at the time?
Sometimes our work is good but no-one tells us and that can leave a hole.
Is a hole a good place for more digging?
Here’s one example: Two colleagues worked in the same office for years. Marley helped Scrooge all of the time: Scrooge never thanked him once. Years later when Marley was leaving the company, Scrooge quietly cornered him and said, “It was a pleasure working with you. I’ll never forget how much you helped me. It won't be the same without you.”
Although it changed Marley’s view of Scrooge forever that moment filled a big hole in Marley’s career understanding as well. He always knew that he had done good work for Scrooge but he never completely believed it until he got Scrooge's feedback.
Marley also learned something important about the holes in his career. He now understood that they wouldn't go away if he ignored them. From then on Marley challenged himself to act differently whenever he found a hole. First, he resolved to climb in and dig around. Second, he would start to fill it in. Never again would Marley ignore or walk away from a hole in his career.
[Thought - see more at Saundra's Flickr Photostream here]
✪ What’s the longest you have waited for positive feedback?
✪ When you got it, what did it challenge or confirm?
✪ How did you feel or act differently after getting it?
Marley taught me to be a lot braver about my career. That doesn't mean I now act carelessly. If anything, Marley's experience showed me how to act positively whatever the situation, however big the hole! My only regret is I never met and talked with Marley years ago.
✪ Where are the holes in our careers?
Comment here and let's see what else we can find!
All the best for now,